WHEN YOU FEEL GUILTY - THEN JUST TALK TO YOUR PARENTS
When you feel guilty about something, talking to your parents can be a helpful way to address and process your emotions. Here are a few reasons why talking to your parents can be beneficial:
Emotional support: Your parents are typically the people who care about you the most and want to see you happy and healthy. Sharing your feelings of guilt with them can provide emotional support and reassurance. They can offer guidance, and understanding, and help you navigate through your emotions.
Perspective and guidance: Parents often have more life experience and wisdom. They can offer a different perspective on the situation that is causing your guilt. They may help you see things from a broader viewpoint and provide guidance on how to cope with the guilt or make amends if necessary.
Unconditional love: Parents generally love their children unconditionally. Knowing that they love you regardless of your mistakes can help alleviate some of the guilt you may be feeling. They can remind you that everyone makes mistakes and that learning from them is an essential part of personal growth.
Problem-solving: Sometimes guilt arises from specific actions or situations that need to be addressed. Talking to your parents can help you come up with strategies to resolve the situation or make amends, depending on the circumstances. They can provide insights and advice on how to handle the guilt constructively and positively.
However, it's important to note that not everyone has a positive relationship with their parents or may not feel comfortable talking to them about certain issues. In such cases, it can be helpful to reach out to a trusted friend, family member, or a mental health professional who can provide support and guidance. Ultimately, the goal is to find someone who can offer understanding and help you navigate your feelings of guilt healthily and constructively.
“Hold dear to your parents for it is a scary and confusing world without them.” — Emily Dickinson
When you're feeling guilty, talking to your parents can be a good idea if you have a positive and supportive relationship with them. They can provide guidance, support, and advice to help you navigate your feelings of guilt. However, it's important to remember that not everyone has the same kind of relationship with their parents, and in some cases, seeking guidance from other trusted individuals such as friends, mentors, or professionals might be more appropriate.
When discussing your guilt with your parents or anyone else, consider the following:
Choose the right time and place: Find a quiet and comfortable environment where you can have an open and honest conversation without distractions.
Be honest: Share your feelings and the reasons behind your guilt. Express yourself clearly and openly so that your parents can understand your perspective.
Listen to their perspective: Allow your parents to share their thoughts and opinions on the matter. They may offer insights or provide a different viewpoint that can help you gain a broader understanding of the situation.
Seek their guidance: Ask for their advice on how to cope with your guilt and move forward. They may provide suggestions, offer support, or share their own experiences to help you find a resolution.
Learn from the experience: Use the conversation as an opportunity for personal growth. Reflect on the lessons you can take away from the situation and discuss with your parents how you can make amends or prevent similar situations in the future.
Remember that guilt is a normal emotion, and talking to your parents can be beneficial in many cases. However, if you're experiencing overwhelming guilt or if the guilt stems from abusive or toxic relationships, it's essential to prioritize your well-being and consider seeking support from a mental health professional or a helpline in your country.
- YOU ARE GUILTY BECAUSE YOU HAD TALKED TO YOUR PARENTS BADLY BECAUSE OF ANOTHER THOUGHT OR RELEASED YOUR ANGER ON YOUR PARENTS BECAUSE OF ANOTHER PERSON'S
- ONE QUESTION REFLECTS THAT
- What do you do when you feel guilty that you didn't talk nicely with your parents?
Oh my god…!!! It happened to me a hundred times. Always when I do something unaware of my parents, I start telling lies. And u know, I’m an expert in doing so! Well, studying psychology might have not changed my character, but yes, it improved the intensity of honesty in my lies!
One thing you actually know is that you actually love them and want them to be good to you and that’s it. The same thing goes on in their mind also. You actually don’t want them to hug you closely every time and say, ” NO! ABSOLUTELY NO to listen to your parents say that so weird that they hadn’t even done it since you started using your senses.
When you don’t want such over-affection from them, then there’s one point to note. YOU MUST ALSO NOT REACT TOO AFFECTIONATELY TO THEM. You know, straight trees are cut first. Thus, being too affectionate and too loyal might make them feel good… but at times when you have done a mistake, it outrages their physical balance and emotions.
Sometimes occur suddenly in your life and you completely lose control over emotions. then you fall into this prey of being self-insulted in front of them.
Yaar…. they are our parents! It is they who gave birth to us and they only can understand you. You share the genes of them.
TELL THEM THAT YOU ARE AN OFFSPRING OF THEM AND WANTED TO BECOME AND BEHAVE LIKE THEM. IN THE PROCESS, YOU FELL INTO HURDLES AND CONFUSION AND WERE UNABLE TO REACT CORRECTLY.
TELL THEM HOW YOU ACTUALLY FELT AT THE TIME YOU YELLED AT THEM.
TELL THEM HOW MUCH YOU ARE TRYING TO TRANSFORM INTO A ROCK AGAINST THE WORLD JUST TO SEE A SATISFIED SMILE ON THEIR FACE.
TELL THEM TO ACCEPT THE MISTAKES YOU DO AND EVEN GIVE AMPLE CONTROVERSIES OR PUNISHMENTS UNTIL THEY GAIN TRUST IN YOU. By doing so, you are just giving your flag of independence in their hands. Trust me, once you do, they don’t waste that opportunity. First, they literally test your patience… then, once they get to know that you are used to particular melodramas made by them, they start giving opportunities and warnings too on how to utilize them. As time passes, you will gain your independence back. Let me tell you, the freedom gained through this way is REPUBLIC. Once you get intimate with a good parental relationship in this way, you are sure of being confident that let the earth burst, but the confidence in you in your parents’ hearts will remain constant, down to earth.
TELL THEM THAT NO WARRIOR IN THIS WORLD HAS WON A WAR WITHOUT SPECKS OF DUST OF THE MISTAKES ON HIM/HER. TELL THEM THAT YOU ARE NOT SO ALLERGIC TO MISTAKES THAT YOU STOP DOING THEM.
TELL THEM THAT YOU DIDN’T DO IT WANTED OR PURPOSEFULLY.
REGRET THE MISTAKE YOU HAVE MADE AND GIVE AMPLE APOLOGIES TO THEM. Remember, DON’T OVERREACT.
TRY NOT TO REPEAT THE THING YOU HAVE DONE.
If you still are in a rage about continuing the mistake, then try to create a list of lies that supports and protects you from the situation in which you might be caught doing them.
I HOPE YOU UNDERSTAND WHAT I WANT TO TELL YOU
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